Contrived? Possibly. Pre-planned? At least sometimes, I'm sure. Excessive? Bitch, please. However, I will give Jennifer Garner this: she always looks like she enjoys being with Violet and looks the Mommy part (to see the exact opposite, just google any image of Katie Holmes and Suri). She's got the stroller and the diaper bag and looks like she spent four minutes throwing on some old jeans and a pair of sneakers. Not the height of fashion, but it fits the image.
On the professional front, Jen had a pretty decent year, too. She was in "The Kingdom," one of the 173 Iraq war-themed movies of the year, and "Juno," one of the best reviewed movies of the year, and has been appearing on Broadway in "Cyrano" for the last few months--which has allowed a plethora of photos of Violet in a variety of winter hats that will come back to haunt her one day. But she's two--and dog ear hats are still consider adorable. If Jen's got her in them when she's 12, then there could be a problem.
As to Ben Affleck...well, I guess he's around. He hasn't been a fixture in the "Mommy and Me" pics, but has been snapped here and there. He also made his directorial debut, to favorable reviews, with "Gone, Baby, Gone," which...I did not see. Sorry, Ben. I planned to and just never got there. I'll rent it, though. At some point. I'll try, ok? No promises. Look, that's the best I can do.
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